Hmm.....I'm editing this post in a major way, as I've received an email and sent one back, after composing it in tears.....I think everything will be fine.....she thinks I overreacted...I might have when I said we weren't going home with them...whatever, we both value *our* friendship, irregardless of what the girls do...

just received another one from her saying "Love you.....talk to you tomorrow. All is well. Nite :)"